Posts Tagged 'priorities'

one thing

We probably have fairly similar lives with lots of demands & responsibilities – maybe yours are different than mine, but we usually have lots of things to juggle (kids’ schedules, saving Moses, workload concerns, personal goals, family dynamics, church things, . . . .).  You probably have a similar list & I’ve often had people ask me for ideas on how to balance everything.  If I’m honest, there are times when I don’t balance everything well & some things get short changed, which I hate.

But lately, I’ve found it really helpful to nestle into “one thing” – the essential & continuous priority that permeates everything (sleeping, eating, cooking, errands, conversations, work, blogging, thinking, planning, . . . . . ).  My “one thing” is to know Jesus and I want everything that I do to be infused with this “one thing” – Luke 10:42.  ”One thing” doesn’t mean that I drop everything, but it means that as I go throughout each day with its diverse demands and responsibilities, my “one thing” continues and remains :)

burn out

Sometimes in my life I feel like there’s too much journey and not enough Jesus.  I know that life is a journey and that we are encouraged to not grow weary in well doing.  I know that hardships and difficulties create strength, endurance and persistence.  I know that we’re supposed to encourage and strengthen ourselves in the Lord (like David did at Ziklag in 1 Sam).  But if I’m super honest, I also can feel like Elijah in 1 Kings 19, when the angel said that the journey was too much for him – too much journey and not enough Jesus.

But in this phrase, “too much journey and not enough Jesus”, there’s also the answer:  more of Jesus.  It seems to me that our journey in life doesn’t stop – it’s continual.  The quantity of Jesus in my life, however, can fluctuate (understanding that He never leaves us but that my engagement with Him can increase / decrease on any given day).  So let’s be sure that we never take a break from Jesus regardless of what’s happening on our journey in life :)

that’s impressive!!!

There are all kinds of things that can impress us: stupid animal tricks, brilliant mental feats, amazing generosity, world’s strongest iguana and oh so much more!  I just looked on youtube for the latest & greatest (something about an elevator prank in Brazil is popular today), but I was less than impressed.

In 1 Corinthians 13, Paul challenges us to not be impressed with amazing spiritual feats & miracles, nor should we be impressed with persuasive conversations or speeches.  He’s not even impressed with excessive philanthropic activities.  What Paul challenges us to be impressed with is genuine love.   Let’s be mindful about what really catches our attention and grabs our admiration :)

Seek

Seems to me that we look for lots of things: lost keys, missing makeup, acceptance, value, library cards, significance, love & a host of other things, some that are important & some that aren’t. In my line of work, I get to watch people & listen to some of their struggles. Some have told me about their struggles to be beautiful. Some have expressed frustration over their achievements at work & others have told me about various relational challenges that never seem to get resolved.
With all of these things, I like what CS Lewis said, “Aim at heaven and you will get earth thrown in; aim at earth and you will get neither.” Lets be certain that the default pursuit of our life is Jesus, full stop.

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What do I really want?

When I think about the various things that I would like, it’s an interesting list. Somethings are just superficial & others have more substance & significance. But if I think with honesty about many of the things that I want & drill into what’s really in my heart, what I really want is fulfillment, significance, acceptance, purpose & contentment to name a few things. And with these things in mind, the ultimate source for these desires is a vibrant, growing & tranformational relationship with Jesus.
So lets be careful that we don’t fall into the “materialism trap” & remember that when we seek Jesus 1st & His kingdom, then everything else can fall into the proper alignment & priority :)

Eyes on the Prize

This morning has been a really refreshing time of re-focusing for me that I’ve needed more than I realize. Similar to you, I have LOTS of responsibilities & spinning plates. If I’m not careful, I can get too focused on these various important things at the expense of finding my peace & satisfaction in Jesus. For me, any balance that excludes a really healthy dose of intimacy with Jesus is nothing more than an illusion.
So my conclusion is that I have no mojo without being grounded in a deepening intimacy with Jesus :)

spinning plates – TOTALLY FUNNY!!!

Ok, most of us have lots of spinning plates in our lives & depending on the season there are a few more or less.  So here’s some help & humor to keep a bit of balance:

  • humor – watch this first: spinning plates
  • God’s priorities versus self-fulfillment – sometimes we take on extra stuff because the achieving makes us feel good, until we get overwhelmed.  So a good question to ask ourselves is:  Did God give me this assignment or is this a self pursuit?
  • use styrofoam or metal plates ,)
  • keep discrete boundaries – keep each plate on it’s own pole without letting it’s workload bleed over into other areas (family, work, school, relationships, etc)
  • learn to lean into God – independence, dependence & interdependence:  God’s preferences for us don’t include independence from God
  • daily balance – what worked yesterday isn’t guaranteed to be the same for today;  stay agile
  • of SUPREME IMPORTANCE:  maintain a healthy & vibrant relationship with God, otherwise disaster will nip at your heels, ring your doorbell & greet you at the most unexpected & undesirable times

Investing Strategies

I had an interesting conversation with one of my kids about a decision they were making related to a short term pleasure. The problem we were discussing was in relation to pursuing an immediate desire at the expense of a long term payoff. I found that my conversation with my child possibly has had greater impact on me than them.
I think we all wrestle with the challenge of settling for short term pleasure rather than holding out for long term treasure. The immediate can be so alluring while the future can seem so distant. But what I love about Jesus is that He satisfies everything – both the long & short term desires that I have. So let’s go after Jesus & let Him work out the pleasure / treasure balance in our daily living :)

cut the clutter

When I was growing up, my dad would collect antique furniture & the term “collect” was an understatement.  When I would take out the trash to the garage, it was a risky expedition.  I’d be super careful not to touch or brush up against anything for fear of an antique avalanche under which I would be buried.  I remember telling my mom one time that if I didn’t come back from the garage in 15min, to bring a chainsaw & come looking for me.  Needless to say, I survived.  My aunt’s refrigerator was a similar collection, but more lethal ,)

Sometimes I think our lives are like that with God – so full of clutter, that He almost gets buried amidst: work pressures, kids’ activities, house responsiblities, Christmas preparations, etc.  From time to time, its an essential exercise that we de-clutter our lives.  To do this, it helps to look at the priorities that God has put in our lives:  love Him, love people, love our selves, stay true to His purposes in our lives.  From these priorities, we can then simplify & de-clutter our time, bedside reading pile, clothing needs, significance activities, re-structure our relationship priorities, etc.  Avoid the avalanche & cut the clutter :)

balancing important priorities

  I get asked the question alot about balancing family, travel, ministry, church, work, etc. and I think its a GREAT question that I also frequently ask.  I’m comfortable to share my thoughts on the balance topic, with the foundational understanding that I don’t see myself in any way as an expert on the subject, nor would I even pretend to be all-knowing on this really important question.  With that being said, here are some of my thoughts:

  • for me, balance is often a moment by moment & decision by decision activity
  • being flexible is essential for balance
  • focusing on what is most essential helps me to keep my balance
  • balance sometimes means that I have to re-shuffle schedules, plans & activities (with this re-shuffling, its important not to get cranky about a change of plans)
  • for me, margin is essential for balance – when I fill time & energy to the maximum, I find it hard to concentrate & make good choices
  • balance requires wisdom – a gift that God gives to us when we ask Him with faith

Balance – a very good goal that requires agility, wisdom & nimble choices :)


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