My Roots Are Showing!

Here’s the honest truth: I’m about 80% grey & I have to dye my hair every 6-7 weeks to maintain a youthful appearance. My hair stylist says that I’d age myself at least 10 years if I didn’t dye my hair & he’s probably right since he’s the hair expert & I’m not.
And some roots are good. For example, roots in the Bible can grow fruits & results that far exceed our natural abilities & strengths. I desperately need God’s help, intervention & wisdom to flow throughout my life to empower healthy fruit! Let’s allow our roots to sink deep into God rather than letting worry & the flesh cultivate the yucky fruit 🙂


There’s a homeless guy that hangs around my coffee shop & if you just took a quick look at him, you’d think that he’s insane.  He looks kind of gruff, unshaven, sometimes not so clean & generally unkempt.  As I get to know him, he’s less and less scary to me – in fact, I think he’s quite gentle and polite.  Some people probably think that he needs to be committed somewhere.

Perhaps committment is the solution to much of the insanity in which we live.  Think about it:

  • a committed relationship with Jesus infuses our daily living, helping us to forgive, make right choices, think right thoughts, become more mature & effective and Jesus helps us love better & more everyday.
  • being committed to our job or school helps us to get a consistent paycheck or grades that are necessary ingredients for daily living & future success
  • being committed is another way of being planted:  no roots = no fruit 🙂

making faith effective

In the Bible, there are all kinds of things that happened because of faith (blind eyes healed, miracle provisions, raising the dead, family restoration, giant killing, etc).  Whenever I read Hebrews 11, I’m always really stirred up and motivated in my faith because the chicks & dudes in this chapter are AMAZING!!!  But here’s a simple essential to make our faith effective:  genuine love.

In Galatians 5:6, Paul says that faith works by love.  So whenever I’m not seeing the results of faith in my life, the real question doesn’t always rest on the quality / quantity of my faith, but moreso the reality of my genuine love.  Perhaps the evidence of our faith is directly related to the sincerity of our love 🙂


The path to results

Once upon a time, in an ancient & almost forgotten century, there was a movie called When Harry Met Sally.  In the movie, there are these brief interviews with couples who have been married for eons.  What has lingered in my memory from these interviews & from watching couples who are old & have been married since before time, is often the rich texture, the broad understanding & genuine respect that these relationships evidence.  There’s something very alluring & appealing to seeing these long-term relationships.  With all of this being said, I don’t really consider myself to be much of a romantic person (skip the roses, chocolate & I’m unable to muster the interest to endure watching Pride & Prejudice, no matter who the actors are). BUT, what I do like are the results from these long-term committments.

So here’s my point:  the results we often crave in our lives (significance, love, fulfillment, intimacy, satisfaction, achievement, etc) are often nothing less than the consequences of committment, a word that is often disdained in our modern culture.  Perhaps when Jesus talked about abiding in Him to bear much fruit / results, just maybe He was talking about being committed to Him in a deeply personal & daily relationship.  Just a little food for thought ,)

when is it ok to be fruity?

I had this totally delicious conversation w a friend today about abiding in Jesus.  It was a thoroughly delightful conversation because we talked deeply about what it means to abide in Jesus as He talks about this in John 15.  Here are some ideas related to abiding:

  • being present – I love getting to give Jesus my total attention for no other reason than He is nothing short of riveting
  • receiving – for me this is tricky because of my independent nature, but the more I receive from Jesus, the more I want to receive
  • access – when I abide in Jesus, He has unlimited access to all of me & even though it can be painful on occasion, I find that letting Jesus have total access to all of my life is nothing short of sublime

So how does this relate to being fruity?  I’ve found that the better I abide in Jesus, the better the fruit / consequences in my life.  I’m less impatient, more kind & gentle, I’m more generous and I’m a better human.  Fruit is a reflection of the root ,)