Selective Memories

Who is someone you’ve known personally who has inspired you? I can think of a slew of people and all of them have had unique flaws, regardless of how much they inspired me. For example, my former neighbor across the street always inspired me with her devotion to raising her children to love Jesus & how she continuously treats her husband with respect & dignity. With those noteworthy accolades, she had lots the the same flaws that I have. We can be disorganized, scatter-brained & sometimes irresponsible. Nonetheless, I chose to remember her excellent qualities & minimize her shortfalls.

I would suggest that this is a good strategy for lots of our relationships, so that we bring out the positive in people rather than maximizing their negatives.
On this Memorial Day, let’s be grateful that we get to live in the land of the free because of the brave!├╗

Being Nervous

I’m not a big fan of being nervous. I usually mess stuff up when I’m nervous, make goofy mistakes & generally present myself poorly. I was on an important phone conversation earlier this week & I found myself getting nervous, stuttering, stumbling & sounding less than brainy :/
So what to do about being nervous? Here are a few helpful ideas:
*prepare ahead of time – usually my biggest downfall
*pray and ask God to give you peace
*stay focused on what’s immediate, not getting overwhelmed by what’s massive
*trust that God is bigger than your humanity & flaws – message out a mess, testimony from a test & redemption from rubble ­čÖé

Have an awesome weekend!!

don’t fix it

I have some home projects that I’ve agreed to work on to get fixed – washer issues, mini-blind stuff & a few more odd jobs. ┬áTruth be known, I’m not very good on the home project front so these things kind of get conveniently delayed. ┬áThere are also some things that I’m working on with personal development, like using my time more efficiently, being more confident, communicating with more grace, etc.

Sometimes in our efforts to improve, we neglect to appreciate the distinct & unique qualities that God has designed in us. ┬áSometimes we wrongly see our distinctions as flaws because we desperately want to fit in & belong. ┬áThere are some things, however, that God designed in us that are uniquely & beautifully ours. ┬áLet’s revel in God’s love for us & be really good at who God has made us to be!! ­čÖé