This past weekend, my husband & I attended a marriage retreat. Truthfully, I loath these kinds of things. I don’t like having relationship stuff discussed in such a public forum, it makes me uncomfortable & twitchy. But we all do things that we know to be good for us, even when we don’t like it (eating kale, jogging, going to bed on time, etc).
Relationships can be challenging & being married can be outright arduous. Here are some takeaways I gained from this weekend, relevant not only to marriages but to relationships in general:
- winning an argument often means that relationship loses
- forgiveness is essential & trust is earned
- love is doing what’s in the best interests of the other person even when it’s difficult for me
- being safe in a relationship requires communication & attention
Happy Monday & here’s to healthy relationships!