Spring Cleaning and Soul Cleaning :)

We could probably all do a bit of extra cleaning in this season, especially with all of the kids’ school stuff that’s presently occupying far too much counter space 🙂

Here’s another idea for some Spring Cleaning that I’ve been thinking about lately:  perhaps we could all do some “soul cleaning” with some fresh work on the forgiveness front.  Here’s what got me thinking about this – yesterday, I ran across a person with whom I had a very unpleasant exchange in January & I found myself being very frosty with this person, noticeably LESS friendly with them than anyone else.  This was a nice wake up call that I probably need to freshen up my forgiveness maintenance.  Maybe you’re not like me, but I find that I’m really keen to make the forgiveness decision, but sometimes I neglect the followup maintenance that forgiveness can require.  When I make the forgiveness decision, for me this means that I chose to not “punish” the person for our altercation by being unpleasant in any future exchanges.  Furthermore, when I forgive a person, I make the decision not to discuss their failure with anyone else (outside of a normal healthy disclosure).  Additionally, when I chose to forgive, I find it helpful to bless person & to “let go” of the offense – not remind them of their failure by bringing up the past.  Like I said on my fb post, forgiveness is a decision that can require ongoing maintenance ,)

Happy Spring Cleaning!

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