dignify the difficulty

 One of the mentors in my life has this saying, “dignify the trial”.  I used to get cranky with him about this idea, but the more I think about it, the more I agree with this idea.  When he’s talked w me about dignifying the difficulty, he means that when I’m in a tough situation that I can bring dignity to the challenge, as opposed to making the trial a pity party.  Whenever I’m facing a hardship or difficulty, I have a choice to make – I can gripe, moan, worry, complain, fight, argue and other things that could possibly not be constructive.  Or I can make the choice to dignify the difficulty.  In my mind, that means that I don’t run around, complain, whine advertise my struggle & gripe about it to any listening ear.  To dignify the difficulty, that means that I bear up under the struggle, looking to God for strength, wisdom & help.  I may chose to share with a person my struggle in a very private way, but I’m not advertising my hardship to gain sympathy, support, pity or commiseration.

I’m exploring this idea in my daily living with some difficulties that you probably face as well & so far, this idea of dignifying the difficulty has been very rewarding in a very personal way.  I’m particularly liking the idea of leaning into God for His strength & support, rather than advertising my struggle – this seems to be much more constructive & beneficial 🙂

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